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Has a girl ever asked you if she was good after sex... ?
recently my gf has been asking me if she's good in bed... i keep telling her you know the pillow talk "baby your great" "sweetie your wonderful" etc. but the point is... is there something i can do to make her not doubt her ability? i mean she's got talent.. but it's mainly the guy who doubts himself not the woman
ask her if she enjoyed it. it sounds like a confidence issue or (now don't take offence as i mean none) it may be that she's not enjoying it as much as she thought she would and questions her ability to please you as it's supposed to please her (most of the time anyway).
just ask her why she asks that, and just listen to what she says. hey it worked for me.
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MetalGearRay wrote:I'm 14 and I've never had sex. There.
probably just as well, at your age it's probably illegal.
still we all get our turn (one way or another)
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Best thing to do is (even if she's good, lie to her) and tell her there is somthing she does a little wrong/not how u like. Then next time she does it tell her it was f*cking awesome. She'll be well pleased with herself & shut the hell up about it aswell
nah well you see she has a lot security issues and such... she's never really had a stable relationship... ever guys she's been with before has cheated on her... so i'm like the most normal guy she's been with...
and oral yea she does that, like a pro i might add. but i dunno i guess she feels if everytime that if she doesn't do good i'll like leave her or cheat on her or something -shurgs- i really don't know what to do... she's an awesome gf... i enjoy being around her... i just need helps in her getting the thought out of head that i'll leave her...
That's easy. Tell her to shut up or you will cheat on her. J/K. I'd tell her she has to start trusting you, or you'll dump her. Otherwise, you'll never be allowed to do anything alone, because you'll just be out cheating on her and you'll never have any fun with together because you'll be doing nothing but thinking about cheating on her with everything that has tits.
Damn, I should write an advice column. "Ask Roofus."
Tell her she's awesome and make her feel protected. Girls love it when they feel safe in their man's arms.
Don't take this the wrong way, but how are you at fulfilling her needs? It's a long shot, but maybe it wouldn't hurt to do more for her. You know what I'm talking about... give her a little attention. Really learn how to use your tongue too. It's all about the woman when it comes to sex.
I have a girlfriend who I always thought was pretty modest. We started getting pretty heavy when we were making out and she let me get in her pants. I was freakin so suprised! I took it pretty slow at first but she kept initiating more and more stuff(Over the course of the next few weeks). Not trying to brag or anything, but I'm fairly confident that I can pleasure my woman. If you're confident, she'll definitly notice it. She wants it all the time too, and she's not afraid to return the favor. I absolutely love going down on my woman. Probably as much as I like getting some myself.
I dunno if I've told you anything new. It sounds all pretty basic, but there's some people who just dive in there and have no idea what they're doing. When things are getting hot it's easy to remember small things ya know. If anyone else has some tips then I'd love to hear them as well.
Skater_dusto wrote:Tell her she's awesome and make her feel protected. Girls love it when they feel safe in their man's arms.
Don't take this the wrong way, but how are you at fulfilling her needs? It's a long shot, but maybe it wouldn't hurt to do more for her. You know what I'm talking about... give her a little attention. Really learn how to use your tongue too. It's all about the woman when it comes to sex.
I have a girlfriend who I always thought was pretty modest. We started getting pretty heavy when we were making out and she let me get in her pants. I was freakin so suprised! I took it pretty slow at first but she kept initiating more and more stuff(Over the course of the next few weeks). Not trying to brag or anything, but I'm fairly confident that I can pleasure my woman. If you're confident, she'll definitly notice it. She wants it all the time too, and she's not afraid to return the favor. I absolutely love going down on my woman. Probably as much as I like getting some myself.
I dunno if I've told you anything new. It sounds all pretty basic, but there's some people who just dive in there and have no idea what they're doing. When things are getting hot it's easy to remember small things ya know. If anyone else has some tips then I'd love to hear them as well.
Another good step to take would be to learn to hold out for at least 7-10 minutes. None of that 93 second shit you pull when your jerking off.
Kegal excersizes help a bit. If you strengthen your pc muscle, you'll be able to hold for much longer, and the whole experience is much better. You'll have longer, stronger orgasms as well. So it works out for everyone.
A big thing again is confidence. If you have that, you probably won't bust your load right away. And when you're having sex, you don't always have to start ravaging your partner. Take is slow, the point of sex isn't to reach orgasm. You'll have a great time if you remember small things like that. Just have fun. And don't forget to practice. That's the only way you'll get things right.
*Addendum*
I think I'll check out that link to clitoral.com. My parents are running in and out of the computer room, atm. Heh. I don't want any akwardness. I'd advise everyone to check out that link too. Even if you're not getting any, it never hurts to be educated.
Moan a little....you are probably the quiet type in bed and she doesn't know if you're enjoying it. My wife asked me the same question a few times. Just let her know that she's doing a good job. Also remember that your tounge is her best friend ^_-
I'd tell her she has to start trusting you, or you'll dump her. Otherwise, you'll never be allowed to do anything alone, because you'll just be out cheating on her and you'll never have any fun with together because you'll be doing nothing but thinking about cheating on her with everything that has tits.
