sometimes you can't pick up on that right away. usually you get blinded from all the flaws someone has when you first get with them. then as time goes on they all suddenly come to surface. thats how it has been with me ,and my girl as well as past ex's. only a few ex's i have dumped over the situation the rest of the relationships just ended up filtering themselves out. although im willing to look beyond the flaws that have surfaced with my girl cause of how i feel about her.MystiK wrote:i don't see what's shallow about it at all, based on the fact that she was checking out his friend. In terms of farting and her voice being annoying, didnt u know that before she became ur girl?
i couldn't agree with you more. ive been there done that one too many timesMr.Jones wrote:It is for such and such person, Veggita. If you're used to being comfortable around someone, and things don't work out, now that comfort factor isn't there anymore. You're not getting that "on the regular" sex, no more of the banter (whether it be intellectual or "duh") that you got accustomed to, no sittin' on the couch chillaxin. There's a void. And it sucks.
i dont know if sex can really be the only thing you can ,or even should gauge a relationship on. Although if sex is the only thing that really bothers you in the relationship ,and nothing else then maybe it wasn't a relationship in the first place.
honestly i dont think link2k4 was being immature about what he did. i know most of the reason dealt with sexual issues ,but it seems a lot of you guys also missed the facts of this girl basicly being controlled by her family at the age of 22. i really think the girl isn't suited yet for a relationship yet anyways. at least not until she sorts out the issues she already has family wise.
Also i want to point out how someone said that he was shallow about the whole her not wanting to cook,clean,or anything but sit on her ass. well being in a relationship is part of being a team especially if its anything long term with future goals for that relationship such as marrige. so it is nice to know that if the relationship lasts that far that you wont be the only one doing everything especially if you got a hetic life with a hetic career. i agree one should take responablity for themselves ,and make their own meals and such....but on the same note if your going to be a long term relationship the partner shouldn't just lazy around. its all part of being a team.