Do you think kissing is considered cheating?

revengeofLaEternal · Post by **revengeofLaEternal** » Mon Aug 04, 2003 11:53 pm

Here's a simple topic for all y'all to discuss: If someone kisses another person who isn't their significant other (just kissing... nothing more), is that person cheating or is it just harmless fun?

Answer the poll and/or add comments below.

Wagh · Post by **Wagh** » Mon Aug 04, 2003 11:53 pm

naw...

Enki-14 · Post by **Enki-14** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 12:59 am

I would have to say no. But since I consider myself a serious person, I doubt I would be in a situation where I felt I would be cheating on the person I'm involved with. The sceneiros I'm involved in currently, if I would be kissing anyone the other person woud be making the first move and I would be considering where my "real relationships" begin and my "friendships" end. I guess its just me and where I'm at right now, but having a bunch of friends that don't want to commit and then someone comes on to you. Thats easy, you take the one who is eager. The others will realize what they could've had. Sorry for my rant..

Jaded JAaron77 · Post by **Jaded JAaron77** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 1:17 am

I'd have to say yes, but there is a fine line, I guess, as with anything....once it gets into really seriously kissing them, even if it goes no further, there may be a problem......but as for me, I have a girlfriend, and we're in a rather serioius relationship, and there is no one else in this town that I am intrested in in any way..so...I dunno if I'll be in a situation like that any time soon.....

Calavera · Post by **Calavera** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 1:25 am

As long as your not K-I-S-S-I-N-G in a tree.

Jeeba Jabba · Post by **Jeeba Jabba** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 2:47 am

Whoa... la_eternal... Really old member

Post by **Specially Cork** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 4:43 am

I'd say it is. if I was in a relationship and I caught my GF kissing another guy, I wouldnt be too impressed.

mikelomax · Post by **mikelomax** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 5:18 am

depends on the kiss, really. i mean there's a kiss and then there's a KISS.

Veggita2099 · Post by **Veggita2099** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 5:34 am

Depends how much. A light peck on the cheek no, making out however yes.

How would you feel if you walked into a room and saw your GF wraped around some guy passonately making out.

-Azathoth- · Post by **-Azathoth-** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 5:51 am

A full-on tounge in the mouth kiss is cheating. The next logical step would of course be the bump and grind.

Even groping would be considered cheating. Like Veg said, would you like to see your woman with her hands down some other guys pants?

bizzle · Post by **bizzle** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 7:14 am

It's only cheating if you get caught.

Vlad Tepes · Post by **Vlad Tepes** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 8:00 am

Xylene wrote:It's only cheating if you get caught.

"If consequences dictate my course of action, it doesn't matter what's wrong. It's only wrong if you get caught. If consequences dictate my course of action, I should play god and just shoot you myself" - MJK

Cheating is cheating...just like murder is murder. If you kill someone, even if you don't get caught, it's still murder. And I agree with Veggita2099

Firthy2002 · Post by **Firthy2002** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 8:33 am

Xylene wrote:It's only cheating if you get caught.

Yeah...what they don't know can't hurt them.

Mugworm_Griblick · Post by **Mugworm_Griblick** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 1:09 pm

a kiss (and not just a friendly kiss on the cheek) with someone who isnt your significant other, is absolutely cheating.

SadisticSaviorX · Post by **SadisticSaviorX** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 1:23 pm

It's only cheating if you get caught.

but i still say it WOULD BE CHEATING

why are you ansking this anyways LaEternal?

MetalGearRay · Post by **MetalGearRay** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 5:35 pm

Mugworm_Griblick wrote:a kiss (and not just a friendly kiss on the cheek) with someone who isnt your significant other, is absolutely cheating.

Agreed.

Skater_dusto · Post by **Skater_dusto** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 6:59 pm

If my girlfriend kissed another guy I'd be devastated. It would be just as bad as having sex with someone else, if not, worse.

Kissing can be really passionate if you let yourself go. I can't explain it. Some people have the impression that kissing's just a thing that girls enjoy, no way. Making out with my girlfriend's awesome. She's my first 'gf' too, so I guess that's why I can enjoy it so much. I dunno, it's just rad.

curt_grymala · Post by **curt_grymala** » Tue Aug 05, 2003 7:07 pm

I've been married for over a year now, and I still feel the same way skater does. Kissing is a big deal. If I saw my wife kissing another man, I would be devastated. I would crawl up into a ball in the corner and rot away. It has just as much impact, if not more, than having sex with someone else. Kissing is an extremely intimate gesture. Obviously, you have to be face to face in order to kiss someone. As we all know, you do not have to be face to face in order to have sex with someone.

DeGamer · Post by **DeGamer** » Wed Aug 06, 2003 12:33 am

Yes it is cheating. Period. There is no way to twist or change this to make it "not so"

If you are tempted to kiss some one else while you already have GF, then you should not be with her.

perry · Post by **perry** » Wed Aug 06, 2003 11:48 am

I'm actually kinda cheating now. (Too long a story that im too lazy to tell.) Some kissing isn't cheating. This kissing is passionate etc, it really is cheating.

God I feel so bad...You made me feel bad! Bah, heh.