Serious Question: How do you know if you are g.ay?

Luriden · Post by **Luriden** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 5:48 pm

w00t 100th post in this topic! It is quite interesting to hear everyone's opinion about the gay situation.

No Name · Post by **No Name** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:07 pm

Ok, I took a nap and ate dinner, I think I can right a reply that will make sense now. I can't remember who asked what, but I'll try to answer what I remember anyways. I have one older brother. Straight porn isn't doing anything for me, nor do I fantacize about having sex with women. I do fantacize about having sex with men though. About the word gay, it is annoying to have it censored, but understandable. I can imagine that people would post frequently about how things are gay, but isn't that why we have bans and mods? I think it should be removed from the filter. Also, the more I think about it, the more it seems that I am gay. But, the thing is, my best friend is a incredibly devout christian (never heard him swear in his whole life). He is one of those people who thinks homosexuality is a sin. Also, there is no way in hell I am going to tell my parents, or discuss the topic with them, those who know me know why. If I missed anything important, just post again.

No Name · Post by **No Name** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:17 pm

Sickliquid86 wrote:1) How many times do you masturbate in a week? In a day?

I'd prefer not to answer this.

Sickliquid86 wrote:2) How many women do you sleep with in a given month? In a week?

None.

Sickliquid86 wrote:3) Let us say it is a lonely Saturday? How many times would you masturbate? To what type of porn?

Again, no answer here.

Sickliquid86 wrote:4) At work/school do you look forward to masturbation when you arrive home?

Yes.

Sickliquid86 wrote:5) What extracurricular activities are you involved in? (Sports/other)

The robotics team, I also did the math team once.

Sickliquid86 wrote:6) How is your physique?

I have your average nerd physique. Skinny, tall, and weak.

Sickliquid86 wrote:7) How many older brothers do you have? How many sisters did your mom have? How many older brothers does your father have?

1 older brother, 1 younger, and 1 younger sister. My mom had 1 sister (and 1 brother). My father has many brothers (6 i think), dont know how many are older.

Sickliquid86 wrote:8- How old are you?

I answered this before. I am 16.

Sickliquid86 wrote:9) What is the predominant emotion you have after you masterbate?

No answer for you here.

Master Higgins · Post by **Master Higgins** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:26 pm

the best piece of advice I can give is, that you are still pretty young so If I were you I would go about and try to enjoy your life, try to meet a girl who you like personality wise if that doesn't do it for you, then you may be gay. But don't mark yourself off from the get-go who knows you may just be going through a phases I went through a phase where I was nuts about hentai but that does not reflect realife, the thing is that porn is ok but in small enough amounts IT IS NOT REAL you have to experience reallife in the drivers seat not through video games your computer and porn. Try to improve yourself gay or not and dont worry or obsess about it, I do not know if you are athletic but when I entered high school I was fat and wasn't very sociable, now I joined the wrestling team and became stronger this did a lot for my selfesteem. For you I say hit the ground running dont worry about your sexuality because chances are g.ay guys are not knocking on on your door asking to sleep with you so you shouldn't worry. Try to do positive things and make yourself feel good and then you may along the way meet a girl or a guy that makes you feel happy.

I am not saying become a big meat head jock but your personal image of yourself has a lot to do with your sexuality, if you feel you are nerdy guy then I am sure in some ways you envy the physique of a jock so you get what I am saying. This may be tough to do but try to cut back on the porn, self-gratification is ok but porn sometimes you will get a video file that you may use while you are in the mood but then are disgusted by afterwards which can also only move backwards. You've never slept with a woman so I think this may not be an easy thing for you to do, I would suggest trying straight sex before gay sex, because things are a lot differnet when it becomes interpersonal. Best of luck to you bro I really hope you find what you are lookling for. Just be yourself and do what makes you happy, and join the soccer team or swimming team or something or just exercize I cannot say that enoguh like I said your mental image effects how you feel a lot!

EverStoned · Post by **EverStoned** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:27 pm

I think the what type of porn question could be a factor...are we talking like hard core gay s&m...or just like pictures of wang...?

No Name · Post by **No Name** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:32 pm

EverStoned wrote:I think the what type of porn question could be a factor...are we talking like hard core gay s&m...or just like pictures of wang...?

Both.

mmboy · Post by **mmboy** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:34 pm

Dont tell any1 you consider a friend, actually don't tell any1 at all. My friends throw fruit at 'fruits' the the cafeteria. Im pretty sure my one uncle is gay, I'm ok w/ it, cuz he doesn't act to fruity. Just don't be a flaming one. Also, I think being gay is totally disguisting in everyway possible. I don't mean to be mean, but that's how i feel

EverStoned · Post by **EverStoned** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:38 pm

I have gay freinds, and I'm totally cool with that. Their just like everyone else...except they're gay. Couldn't tell otherwise.

One of them once tried to start a gay activity with myself...that was very, very, uncomfortable, and I don't reccomend trying it.

Alexkidd187 · Post by **Alexkidd187** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:39 pm

Sickliquid86 wrote: I don't think he has a "mental problem"

when i made the mental problem reference i was trying to show that the doctors dont really understand it if they think its a mental problem i would never say he had a mental problem for thinking he was gay

Master Higgins · Post by **Master Higgins** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:40 pm

ya I am not going to lye I admire the male physique, in someways it is erotic, but I never have been actually atracted to a man. Like I said, you might want to lay off porn at least for a week or two it is a very strong thing, after you watch this and you have reached your climax and it is still running how do you feel about it? Even when I watch straight porn I feel disgusted after, other guys don't and can watch it the wholeway through but it tells you a lot about your sexuality I think.

EverStoned · Post by **EverStoned** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:40 pm

TheGatesofBill wrote:
EverStoned wrote:I think the what type of porn question could be a factor...are we talking like hard core gay s&m...or just like pictures of wang...?
Both.

Do you think that you're turned on by the men themselves, or the sexual nature of the material?

Alexkidd187 · Post by **Alexkidd187** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:45 pm

mmboy wrote:Dont tell any1 you consider a friend, actually don't tell any1 at all. My friends throw fruit at 'fruits' the the cafeteria. Im pretty sure my one uncle is gay, I'm ok w/ it, cuz he doesn't act to fruity. Just don't be a flaming one. Also, I think being gay is totally disguisting in everyway possible. I don't mean to be mean, but that's how i feel

Young gay people are 80% more likely to attempt suicide people like you dont make there life easier no one walks into your bedroom to see what you do for some reason if someone says they are gay everyone feels they have a right to judge them by who they sleep and how they have sex. If their sex life offends you dont ask them about who they love and or make love to is none of your business so it souldn't disgust you I am not flaming you but i do think you should try to judge people by who they are as a person not by their life style

Alexkidd187 · Post by **Alexkidd187** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:48 pm

EverStoned wrote:
TheGatesofBill wrote:
EverStoned wrote:I think the what type of porn question could be a factor...are we talking like hard core gay s&m...or just like pictures of wang...?
Both.
Do you think that you're turned on by the men themselves, or the sexual nature of the material?

I got turned on when goku kill freeza whats that say about me

mmboy · Post by **mmboy** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:49 pm

the people dont bother me, my Uncle as an example. Its the act of homosexulaity, its just not right, U don't often see animals in nature going and humping the ones of the same gender do u? THats what I thought, its wrong, not natural. OK, thats what I think. So leave it at that.

Master Higgins · Post by **Master Higgins** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:53 pm

yo gatesofbill
http://test3.thespark.com/gaytest/
i faied this test

so I guess I may be gay

anyways though you might wanna take it just for fun.

Alexkidd187 · Post by **Alexkidd187** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:55 pm

mmboy wrote:the people dont bother me, my Uncle as an example. Its the act of homosexulaity, its just not right, U don't often see animals in nature going and humping the ones of the same gender do u? THats what I thought, its wrong, not natural. OK, thats what I think. So leave it at that.

actually its very common in monkeys but they tend to do it as a way of showing dominance

DoomDan · Post by **DoomDan** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 6:55 pm

If your ugly, and no girls want you, and you just become so lonely

, is it possible to become g.ay or possibly a bio?

mmboy · Post by **mmboy** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 7:01 pm

Alexkidd187 wrote:
mmboy wrote:the people dont bother me, my Uncle as an example. Its the act of homosexulaity, its just not right, U don't often see animals in nature going and humping the ones of the same gender do u? THats what I thought, its wrong, not natural. OK, thats what I think. So leave it at that.
actually its very common in monkeys but they tend to do it as a way of showing dominance

Thats not because they are atrracted to them...

No Name · Post by **No Name** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 7:03 pm

I think I am turned on by the men. Like I said, straight porn just does nothing for me.

liltimmyw · Post by **liltimmyw** » Wed Mar 19, 2003 7:04 pm

If your ugly, and no girls want you, and you just become so lonely , is it possible to become g.ay or possibly a bio?

I'm not a ladies man, but I don't think I will ever turn gay.