So I got dumped tonight.... [Finale]

Hawke · Post by **Hawke** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 1:20 am

Me and a buddy (her sisters boyfriend) went to go see borat. The movie sucked my left nut. I get out of said atrocity and lo and behond I have a txt message on my phone!

"Wow! Its from Brenda!" I think to myself for she seldom ever uses the text option of her phone.
"Wonder what's up?"

I open the lid to my phone. Lo and behold, there's a text staring me in the face is a message from the person who means the world to me.

...and I quote (letter , word and punctuation are exact)

"Im sorry. I think its time me 2 b alone 4awhile. Im dont think were going to have anymore time together. Thought i better tell u this now than later."

(keep in mind, she's from Korea and her English isn't the best

)

The girl I've been seeing for many a month now just up and told me we're done in a bloody damned text message.

...needless to say, I'm pretty hurting at the moment.

TyBO · Post by **TyBO** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 1:29 am

Sorry to hear it man...

Hawke · Post by **Hawke** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 1:43 am

Oi - What to do, what to do... (She was on her brother's MSN)

[02:25] Andrew: Ah well - It's probably nothing

I just hope she's okay.
[02:26] Andrew: She's most likely just stressed from work and needs a break to get it all done.
[02:29] Brenda: TAKE THAT AS WHATEVER U THINK..
[02:29] Brenda: THIS IS BRENDA BY THE WAY.
[02:30] Brenda: GNITE
[02:34] Andrew: ...I'm sorry?
[02:35] Brenda: GNITE
[02:35] Andrew: No seriously - Whats going on?
[02:35] Brenda: JUST WHAT I SAID ON THE MSG...
[02:35] Andrew: Yeah - that you need some time to yourself
[02:35] Brenda: NEED TIME BE ALONE.
[02:36] Andrew: All I could figure was it was for school cause you're so busy
[02:36] Brenda: YA.. I WONT BE TALK TO ANYONE FORAWHILE.. EXCEPT FOR SCHOOL CALSSMATE
[02:36] Andrew: [02:26] Andrew: She's most likly just stressed from work and needs a break to get it all done.
[02:36] Andrew: which is exactly what I said
[02:36] Andrew: Whats the problem? Why are you so mad?
[02:37] Brenda: NOTHING
[02:37] Andrew: bull shit
[02:37] Brenda: NOT GOOD MODD TO TALK.
[02:37] Andrew: What the hell is going on?
[02:37] Andrew: Alright - Can you call me later? Tomorrow? A few days even?
[02:38] Brenda: ITS NOT U.. ITS JUST ME..
[02:38] Andrew: kk
[02:38] Brenda: DONT BOTHER
[02:38] Brenda: NOT WORTHY.
[02:38] Andrew: Hey look - I didn't mean anything bad at all - I really didn't.
[02:38] Andrew: I'm just trying to understand whats going on.
[02:39] Andrew: Just please give me a call sometime?
[02:40] Andrew: Good night B, I don't care how long it takes - Call me sometime <3

bizzle · Post by **bizzle** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 5:19 am

Maybe it has something to do with your WoW addiction.

Disheveled DrFreeze · Post by **Disheveled DrFreeze** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 5:43 am

hmm, the "dont bother, not worthy" could be interpreted in two ways, either she thinks she isnt worthy to be with you, or the other way around

if its the first, talk to her, find out what has get her down, if its the second, well sorry mate, shit happens

SuperMegatron · Post by **SuperMegatron** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 6:26 am

She is from Korea and I will go out on a limb and say your white. Her parents probably told her if she dates you she will be disowned.

not just souLLy now · Post by **not just souLLy now** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 9:30 am

SuperMegatron wrote:She is from Korea and I will go out on a limb and say your white. Her parents probably told her if she dates you she will be disowned.

you're so worldly aren't you.

sorry to hear about it hawke, here's hoping it sorts itself out

Post by **Specially Cork** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 9:49 am

SuperMegatron wrote:She is from Korea and I will go out on a limb and say your white. Her parents probably told her if she dates you she will be disowned.

Nice to see racism still doing well in America.

Jeeba Jabba · Post by **Jeeba Jabba** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 10:12 am

not just souLLy now wrote:
SuperMegatron wrote:She is from Korea and I will go out on a limb and say your white. Her parents probably told her if she dates you she will be disowned.
you're so worldly aren't you.

Hawke · Post by **Hawke** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 10:31 am

SuperMegatron wrote:She is from Korea and I will go out on a limb and say your white. Her parents probably told her if she dates you she will be disowned.

Nah - Both of her siblings are dating white devils so thats highly doubtfull. I honestly don't know what to make of it. I've been dumped before, so this is really no big deal. The reason its boring its way into my very core, is because recently a really good friend of mine moved away. So as a fall back plan, I was thinking I'd spend more time with the gf! Now she's out of the picture.

Christ I feel lonely

Hawq · Post by **Hawq** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 10:40 am

Drink heavily, it will take the pain away

Hawke · Post by **Hawke** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 11:04 am

Hawq wrote:Drink heavily, it will take the pain away

considering it...... nah I'm too broke

Jeeba Jabba · Post by **Jeeba Jabba** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 11:54 am

Hawq wrote:Drink heavily, it will take the pain away

Hawq's actually right on this one.

Thomas · Post by **Thomas** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 12:07 pm

Sorry to hear. She could have at least called you too, dumping some via text message seems a bit immature.

APE · Post by **APE** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 12:22 pm

BoneyCork wrote:
SuperMegatron wrote:She is from Korea and I will go out on a limb and say your white. Her parents probably told her if she dates you she will be disowned.
Nice to see racism still doing well in America.

Oh come on Boney, you've said many a times if you and your woman have kids they will be raised in the UK because of Japanese racism towards anyone who isn't 100% Japanese.

Matisfaction · Post by **Matisfaction** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 1:02 pm

It's bad enough being dumped, but being dumped by text messege, Ouch! Then she throws in the "it's not you it's me line".

Hawke · Post by **Hawke** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 1:16 pm

Well, turns out that NO one saw this coming. Not her sisters, her brother or any of their bf/gf's. So she's completely stumped EVERYONE on this (me especially).

So gentlemen, cross yer fingers, toes and whatever else you got. Lets hope I can salvage this and maybe figure out what the hell is going on.

Veggita2099 · Post by **Veggita2099** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 3:08 pm

Shows her character breaking up like that. My ex used the class e-mail break up. Honestly if a person is going to dump somebody have the guys to call them.

SadisticSaviorX · Post by **SadisticSaviorX** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 4:49 pm

Matisfaction wrote:It's bad enough being dumped, but being dumped by text messege, Ouch! Then she throws in the "it's not you it's me line".

Breaking up with someone over a text msg is just wrong. It just shows that you dont care enought to say something to their face.
I feel for you, man.

Hawke · Post by **Hawke** » Sun Nov 12, 2006 4:52 pm

k this thread is depressing - lol

I'm going to give it a few days, let her cool her jets and maybe talk to her when her head is clear.

I'll keep you guys posted.