A "girl problem" thread about my hottie's boss

Disheveled DrFreeze · Post by **Disheveled DrFreeze** » Sat Apr 02, 2005 4:28 am

lol, wasnt the boss somewhere between 40 and 50? i wouldnt even want to see his wife

you could off course inform her of his ways

Code-Red · Post by **Code-Red** » Sat Apr 02, 2005 11:09 am

She is most likely cheating on you regardless. Females always do a bit of hanky panky for a move up on the ol' corporate ladder.

Xylene wrote:See if you can somehow get a picture of him touching her, then send it to his wife.

Not just that, you could copy the emails and send them off to his wife....then after that, find him and kick his teeth down his throat.

BTW....getting into other peoples accounts to read their emails is kind of creepy...and stalker style. I think you should stop doing that while your ahead.

Prophet][ · Post by **Prophet][** » Sun Apr 03, 2005 4:31 am

if he does fire her, their is a thing called "Wrongful dismissal". Well, their is here anyway,

Matt · Post by **Matt** » Sun Apr 03, 2005 5:44 am

Your in America right, can't you make millions out of suing the guy and live happily ever after

Look up about employment laws, you'll probably be able to take him to court for something. Then if he fires her, Prophet's right it'll be wrongful dismissal which you probably also take them to court for

Vlad Tepes · Post by **Vlad Tepes** » Sun Apr 03, 2005 6:14 pm

Well...I'm not sure what to think, but I don't THINK she's cheating. I mean, she did tell me her boss was a perve before I ever looked at her email. If she was cheating, I don't think she would have said anything. As far as the email goes...it's really not a big deal. I went through it last night while she watched me...so...it's not like I'm really doing anything sneaky. I mean, she was the one who gave me her password, and told me, "I don't have anything to hide...take a look." ...otherwise I wouldn't have even gone that route.

Oh...and she's started keeping a journal of everything he says to her...which includes the "send me nude pix" emails...

DCFan2004 · Post by **DCFan2004** » Sun Apr 03, 2005 6:32 pm

Well when he pinched her nipple like you said in the first post you can sue him for sexual harassment off of that right there. If she wants to get more occurances of sexual harassment it will only help to further her case but if she lets it go on too long it might look bad for her if she brings it to court.

Skater_dusto · Post by **Skater_dusto** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 12:00 am

Pinched her nipple? If that happened to my gf she'd stand up to that, or if she were too scared she'd tell me and we'd figure something out.... try getting her to stand up for herself, the worst thing that could happen is she could get fired and sue him for thousands of dollars, and that's a pretty damn near guarantee. If not, he should give her kudos for standing up for herself and realize that he's got no mojo and hopefully back down.

How well do you know this girl? I never suspected cheating at all, but I really don't know the girl. If there's any real suspicion then that sucks for you mate. There really shouldn't be anything keeping you together if there's honest suspicion.

Eating at the Y sounds like uhh... yeah, eating out a pussy... but I don't use lame slang like that so I wouldn't know for sure. If she's being completely honest with you and you can't bare it anymore then handle things the old fashioned way and knock the fucker out. If there's money to be had, like seriously get a lawyer and have a good long talk. If not though I'd dummy the guy. I know that if any male ever touched my gf's nipple it'd make her feel insanely uncomfortable, worthless and violated. I can't fathom the kinds of feelings she'd have if she were sexually harassed even verbally. I'm not one to be true about advocating violence or losing my temper, but a very serious beating would take place if I were in that sort of situation.

Skynet · Post by **Skynet** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 12:11 am

I'm gonna go with everyone that said sue. Not only does she get away from the perv and let him know how much of a twat he is, she gets money for it too!

BaldMonk · Post by **BaldMonk** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 12:46 am

I don't think she's cheating... and you can't assume unless you know for sure.

But yeah, tell her to tell him to stop. Once she's said it once, and if he doesn't, then it's time to sue. Letting herself get walked all over is not a good idea at all... she needs to stand up for herself asap.

Jeeba Jabba · Post by **Jeeba Jabba** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 1:18 am

As for her boss, I'd kill that mother fucker. Mother fucker would taste the shameless wrath of my blade like the bitch he is. O.P.P. bitch.

Post by **I.M. Weasel** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 9:40 am

Vlad Tepes wrote: I went through it last night while she watched me...so...it's not like I'm really doing anything sneaky. I mean, she was the one who gave me her password, and told me, "I don't have anything to hide...take a look." ...otherwise I wouldn't have even gone that route.

Oh...and she's started keeping a journal of everything he says to her...which includes the "send me nude pix" emails...

oh,well then i kinda change my opinion. but you should always leave the option open to tell his wife,like if you gf finds a new job.

that would be a burn for the century. i still dont like the fact she lied though.

not just souLLy now · Post by **not just souLLy now** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 9:53 am

my reading of that was that she's cheating... or at the very least is flattered by this guy and likes the attention.

mink03 · Post by **mink03** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 11:17 am

wow. that is some serious fucked up shit..i seriously say have a sit down with her and just talk about things.. but before hand find somethings about sexual harassment, then like plan out this really good scheme to have this man get in serious shit for some serious cash, make a whole bunch money of it and live ahppily ever after together..who knows maybe you can become CEO of that company

Vlad Tepes · Post by **Vlad Tepes** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 11:43 am

mink03 wrote:wow. that is some serious fudge up poop..i seriously say have a sit down with her and just talk about things.. but before hand find somethings about sexual harassment, then like plan out this really good scheme to have this man get in serious poop for some serious cash, make a whole bunch money of it and live ahppily ever after together..who knows maybe you can become CEO of that company

We did that this weekend. I've done some reading on sexual harrassment, and, like I said in my last post, she's started making a journal of the stuff he's said/done to her.

butters · Post by **butters** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 4:10 pm

Don't forget to get proof so that it holds up in court.

Sir Savant · Post by **Sir Savant** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 4:17 pm

Stalk their asses. And try to get video surviellence from the actual company once you get to the courts.

Dont forget all those who advised you to sue and perhaps give us some money. Lol.

Im serious about giving us money, though.

Skater_dusto · Post by **Skater_dusto** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 2:19 am

I hardly think he/she'd need proof in this situation. If a girl cries sexual harassment, do you know how many other raging woman would back her? If she lost the case she could appeal until she's freaking loaded. Sue the cocksucker!

Sultan of Saturn · Post by **Sultan of Saturn** » Sat Apr 09, 2005 2:12 am

I wouldn't start thinking that she is cheating. It would be easy to see some compromise if somebody had a child and was out of work for quite a while...the child comes first. I have never heard of eating at the Y before, and I am 26. However....I am in Iowa...so...I don't know. However, keeping a journal as well as keeping copies of emails and the like may prove to be substantial. She may be able to get some pro-bono legal counseling due to her financial condition.

Last but not least, you've got to trust the one's you love. If you don't have trust, then you don't have anything. The truth has its way of coming out.

BunnieRein · Post by **BunnieRein** » Sat Apr 09, 2005 2:28 am

wow... that is some... akward info o.o
yuh, I think a sexual harrassment case is needed, and I dont think she is cheating on you, sounds more like shes scared more than anything, whether open or not. You said you started the whole process, well than good luck to you, and yes, if all else fails, appeal to you win, cause american court systems always makes things come out 'right' *cough**cough*

Green Ranger · Post by **Green Ranger** » Sat Apr 09, 2005 12:39 pm

So she is willing to be treated like a piece of meat in order to keep this job?

You say she's being paid well, so it's possible the boss is doing so in order to keep her around. I'm sure you've already had this talk with her, but if not tell her that this situation makes you uncomfortable and that it is putting a strain on the relationship. She shouldn't have to deal with harassment ANYWHERE. She needs to make a choice: either resign, or report this, before the situation gets worse.