My girlfriend dump me.....

Cless · Post by **Cless** » Tue Feb 04, 2003 3:04 pm

Yeah, its not to hard to get a girl to like you but its almost impossable for me to keep a girl or find one that I like enough to bother keeping.

squirly · Post by **squirly** » Tue Feb 04, 2003 9:14 pm

Here are some timps you might wanna consider the next time around...

1. Girls like attention but they dont like to be smothered
2. We like to be kissed, not drowned in saliva
3. We like to know we have a best friend, as well as a lover
4. Being reminded how sexy/pretty we are makes us happy
5. Going somewhere other than the bedroom is a welcome change
6. Being introduced to your friends as your girl is nice
7. Presents are great, but not necessary
8. Changing plans you had to be with us makes us realise just how much you care
9. Sex is fantastic but not everything
10. Being held close and told we're loved is the best thing in the world

Theres probable more but I can't think of them right now. Hope that helped you or anyone. The reason I know all this is because I'm one of the lucky ones with a completely perfect boyfriend who would give up everything for me but at the same time gives me space and freedom to be myself.

Dbztrunks1020 · Post by **Dbztrunks1020** » Tue Feb 04, 2003 9:44 pm

that helps
thanks

squirly · Post by **squirly** » Tue Feb 04, 2003 11:31 pm

I'm guessing she dumped you... poor thing

Do you know what you did (if you did anything) for her to leave you?
Were you too clingy perhaps? I dumped a guy like that once. It's not something we're looking for. I dunno. Like someone said b4, maybe she cheated and felt guilty?? Or maybe she's in love with someone you're close to... happened to me once

Narcissus · Post by **Narcissus** » Wed Feb 05, 2003 3:07 pm

Well... I'll tell you guys something interesting... I've had 7 two year relationships. Yes, that's right SEVEN! Not all have been exactly two years... some have been like a year and 8 months, and some have been a little over two years, but they've all been around two years. All of my girlfriends have been totally different from each other, some older, some younger... and what I've learned from the whole thing is, girls are way different than guys. They expect totally different things out of a relationship, and things that you would never think of all year, cross their minds many times a day. Basically, what I'm getting at is, you can't treat a girl the way you want to be treated, you have to treat her the way she wants to be treated. The only way you'll ever know how to do that is to ask subtly, or try to read into her actions. Communication is the key, and before you can be true lovers, you have to be best friends. The thing is, as many relationships that I've had, I'm still trying to figure women out...

squirly · Post by **squirly** » Thu Feb 06, 2003 6:47 am

The thing is, as many relationships that I've had, I'm still trying to figure women out...

Women are by no means difficult!

Narcissus · Post by **Narcissus** » Fri Feb 07, 2003 2:08 am

squirly wrote:Women are by no means difficult!

Ummm.... I must disagree...

az_bont · Post by **az_bont** » Fri Feb 07, 2003 9:57 am

Wow, Narcissus - when d'you break out of jail?

Narcissus · Post by **Narcissus** » Fri Feb 07, 2003 10:53 am

az_bont wrote:Wow, Narcissus - when d'you break out of jail?

LOL, I'm actually still there.