When does one become gay?

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Post by Master Higgins » Sun Sep 21, 2003 7:28 pm

GoldbergWWE wrote:Ideals and ideas have changed over the past century. Back in the 1800's a man would admire a mans sense of strength and the beauty of a man was his physical shape - muscles- definition etc...
It is quite normal for a man to admire another mans body, not for sexual purpose, but a way of comparitive dominance. If you like the look of a man, does not make you homosexual. Admitting something that is actually natural is good. Without realizing it, everyone actually "sizes up the competition" as it were. It's natural instinct.

Don't worry about it sick, if you're questioning your sexuality, do it because you actually get off on the male body and not just because you want to admire a muscular/strong man.

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omg goldberg that is the best post in this thread. Yes! That is it, I admire other men's beauty in that way, I don't want to fukk them but I do want to see them naked and admire them, I guess it wouldn't suprise you to know I am a wrestler :lol: but I started feeling like that my 8th grade year in the locker room around this fellow wrestler, I really just wanted to have a deep connection with him not a sexual one, but I really did and do admire him in the sense you said. I am glad I am not the only one this is happening too, I guess it is a feeling that many people don't adress anymore because of the fear of homosexuality. Thanx man :)
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Post by Storminator16 » Sun Sep 21, 2003 7:30 pm

MetalGearRay wrote:
Sickliquid86 wrote:
Yeah, you're gay when you want to kiss or have sexual fantasies about a man for pleasure. For example, I could say "Colin Farrel is good looking." That does NOT mean I'm gay. It just means that I acknowledge that he is a good looking man. If someone says "I want to kiss Colin Farrel" or "I want to have sex with Colin Farrel", then they probably ARE gay. Unless they're joking, of course.
Ya I don't have sexual fantasies about men, but this feeling I get , I will write out the "symptons"
1) Tightening of the stomach/ Butterflies
2) I want talk to them
3) Hang out with them
4) Be them
5) Sometimes I want to see them naked
Things that do not happen
1) I do not get an erection
2) Do not have fantasies of sex
3) Do not smile like when I am around girls
No, that doesn't mean you're gay. It just means that you think they're cool and you look up to them. It's normal. You have a deep respect for them.
Yeah, to get back on-topic I agree with MetalGearRay said here. Its natural to feel the way you do, really. Not a "homosexual tendency" like some people would call it.

That is my last post on the matter ;) I hate having off-topic conversations on emulation boards...
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Post by Master Higgins » Sun Sep 21, 2003 7:33 pm

WillSams wrote:
MetalGearRay wrote:
Sickliquid86 wrote:
Yeah, you're gay when you want to kiss or have sexual fantasies about a man for pleasure. For example, I could say "Colin Farrel is good looking." That does NOT mean I'm gay. It just means that I acknowledge that he is a good looking man. If someone says "I want to kiss Colin Farrel" or "I want to have sex with Colin Farrel", then they probably ARE gay. Unless they're joking, of course.
Ya I don't have sexual fantasies about men, but this feeling I get , I will write out the "symptons"
1) Tightening of the stomach/ Butterflies
2) I want talk to them
3) Hang out with them
4) Be them
5) Sometimes I want to see them naked
Things that do not happen
1) I do not get an erection
2) Do not have fantasies of sex
3) Do not smile like when I am around girls
No, that doesn't mean you're gay. It just means that you think they're cool and you look up to them. It's normal. You have a deep respect for them.
Yeah, to get back on-topic I agree with MetalGearRay said here. Its natural to feel the way you do, really. Not a "homosexual tendency" like some people would call it.
I guess I was just worried because at times I felt really uncomfortable about it, and it isn't something anglos or hispanos talk about, if it were talked about it may be percieved as gay which in truth is a worst fear of many, to be gay, at least It is of me.
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Post by jaredfogle » Sun Sep 21, 2003 7:35 pm

WillSams wrote:
MetalGearRay wrote:
Sickliquid86 wrote:
Yeah, you're gay when you want to kiss or have sexual fantasies about a man for pleasure. For example, I could say "Colin Farrel is good looking." That does NOT mean I'm gay. It just means that I acknowledge that he is a good looking man. If someone says "I want to kiss Colin Farrel" or "I want to have sex with Colin Farrel", then they probably ARE gay. Unless they're joking, of course.
Ya I don't have sexual fantasies about men, but this feeling I get , I will write out the "symptons"
1) Tightening of the stomach/ Butterflies
2) I want talk to them
3) Hang out with them
4) Be them
5) Sometimes I want to see them naked
Things that do not happen
1) I do not get an erection
2) Do not have fantasies of sex
3) Do not smile like when I am around girls
No, that doesn't mean you're gay. It just means that you think they're cool and you look up to them. It's normal. You have a deep respect for them.
Yeah, to get back on-topic I agree with MetalGearRay said here. Its natural to feel the way you do, really. Not a "homosexual tendency" like some people would call it.

That is my last post on the matter ;) I hate having off-topic conversations on emulation boards...
Most of that list could be attributed to the human tendency to form friendships. you get a little nervous because there is this really cool guy you want to befriend.

The naked thing is the only one that couldnt be associated with friendship, but that is more likely a great appreciation for the beauty of the human body in general, and not exclusively the female body, as most hetero males are.
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Post by Roofus » Sun Sep 21, 2003 7:40 pm

Sickliquid86 wrote:I guess I was just worried because at times I felt really uncomfortable about it, and it isn't something anglos or hispanos talk about, if it were talked about it may be percieved as gay which in truth is a worst fear of many, to be gay, at least It is of me.
Being sexually attracted to men is a requirement of homosexuality. If you are, then you're gay. If you're not, then you're not.
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Post by GoldbergWWE » Sun Sep 21, 2003 7:46 pm

Actually 99.9% of hetrosexual men look at the male form without even realizing they do it. It's natural instict going back to the time where the strong man would be the one who got the woman and had the children. It's not defined now as a nessesity in out psyche but the instinct is still there none the less. Realising that you do it, even for a fleeting moment (as sick has done) is shocking to the system some times, but it's nothing to be concerned about.

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Post by Wagh » Sun Sep 21, 2003 8:24 pm

WillSams wrote:I didn't freak. How did you construe that by typed words?
upset you enough that you had decided that you werent goign to post in the thread anymore.. but we can see you can't hold true to that :P
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Post by AmadeusZull » Sun Sep 21, 2003 10:13 pm

i would bang colin farrel, vin diesel, shamar moore, sean conery, and steve harvey.
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Post by Master Higgins » Sun Sep 21, 2003 10:15 pm

AmadeusZull wrote:i would bang colin farrel, vin diesel, shamar moore, sean conery, and steve harvey.
are u serious?
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Post by perry » Mon Sep 22, 2003 9:14 am

AmadeusZull wrote:i would bang colin farrel, vin diesel, shamar moore, sean conery, and steve harvey.
Heh what a list of cool guys. Except I don't know who shamar moore is, and I don't aprticurlay like Vin...

I swear like Colin though...I really gotta stop that. . .
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Post by Storminator16 » Mon Sep 22, 2003 9:23 am

Random_Troll wrote:
WillSams wrote:I didn't freak. How did you construe that by typed words?
upset you enough that you had decided that you werent goign to post in the thread anymore.. but we can see you can't hold true to that :P
Lol, I said that because I really don't believe in talking about too much off topic stuff on this site or Consolevision anymore. For the same reason why I'm having to make this post: it seems like some of you can't take criticism or an objective comment from a different point of view even though this is a open message board. Being that it is a open message board, why take what I or anyone else say personal? All you did in the first place is construe everything I said to fit your needs. By this, you seem to be going out of your way to target me, for some odd reason. Who are you anyway, Random Troll? You seem like you are going out of your way for some reason....why don't you just stay on topic ;)

Believe me, it doesn't bother me I just find it highly wierd. :/
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Post by Wagh » Mon Sep 22, 2003 2:06 pm

WillSams wrote: By this, you seem to be going out of your way to target me, for some odd reason. Who are you anyway, Random Troll? You seem like you are going out of your way for some reason....why don't you just stay on topic ;)

Believe me, it doesn't bother me I just find it highly wierd. :/
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Post by Storminator16 » Mon Sep 22, 2003 5:51 pm

Random_Troll wrote:target you? naw just having fun since nyar wont reply to me anymore >D sides you know me :) think.. cv.. think uhm Wagh :P
Yeah, I actually found out on irc. :D No hard feelings, now that I know who I'm dealing with LOL
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